A fellow blogging mama recently shared her experience of post-partum hair loss, or shedding, and it struck a chord. I realised I never shared my shedding story previously, maybe because it meant admitting to myself it was happening, maybe it was embarrassment, but it might have just been lack of time then totally forgetting (I had a newborn remember!)
This picture doesn’t even begin to represent the amount of shedding I’ve experienced over the past few months. It started slowly, but there were days when I was scared to touch my head out of fear I’d just be touching scalp. My hairline is the worst – it seems to have receded at an alarming rate. Boy2 is 18 months and I’m still losing hair!
But in 9 or so months of shedding I have realised:
- shedding is very common. Lots of women experience it post-partum, to different degrees
- we shouldn’t be ashamed to share it. Sharing is caring afterall and just hearing about other people’s struggles, can make you feel a bit better
- in most cases, other people won’t notice the loss half as much as you expect them too. Even the hubster only really notices it by the random hairs on the bathroom floor. I’m sure he thinks I’m hiding some afro-wearing dog in the house
- I can get quite creative with my hair if I’m feeling a bit self conscious
I’m hoping this is just a temporary thing. My hair will eventually grow back and I’ll have a hairline again. But in the meantime its another change for me to get used to. Learning about my new hair (or lack of) and getting to grips with new products to help it grow.
Please let me know if you have experienced hair loss and how you are getting on!
PS – to all afro-mamas. I’m trying a combo of shea butter and castor oil for my edges and trying to up my water intake. Lets see how I get on