There isn’t a one size fits all approach to mothering. That fact alone is encouraging.
Anyone in the Manchester area might be aware of a great project by photographer, Bec Lupton, called The Mothers. Its a great collection of photos and reflections on motherhood, from different women. What’s great about it is that it proves just how different everyone’s experiences can be. There isn’t a one size fits all approach to mothering. That fact alone is encouraging.
If you haven’t heard of it, check it out here: http://www.the-mothers.co.uk/
Inspired by some of the articles I’d read and in an attempt to articulate what I really think about my mothering experience, I decided to get involved.
The verdict? I loved it! It was almost therapeutic to take the time and really think about motherhood from my own perspective. Expectations vs reality. Good advice vs bad advice. Hopes and aspirations.
Plus I got some great action shots of me and the boys – it was a nightmare getting them to both sit still at the same time without resorting to Paw Patrol (!)
With parenting life being soooo busy, its easy to lose perspective and forget what its all about. I’d highly recommend taking a few minutes out to think about what you want for your family. And if you fancy it, get in touch with Bec and take part in this fab project – I’d love to hear your thoughts!
PS – she’s also started The Fathers, for any dads who’d like to share
Hard to believe, but I’m finding the positives in the arrival of the Trump
21 days since you became president and I want to thank you.
Thank you for reminding us that we still have so much work to do to remove ignorance and intolerance from this world.
Thank you for teaching my children that if you judge and speak badly of someone because of their gender, sexuality, religion or ethnicity, everyone will stand up against it to prove you wrong, no matter how powerful you might be.
Thank you for teaching them that complacency is as disruptive as extremism. We will no longer take a good, or great, situation for granted.
Thank you for showing my children that if they disrespect women, they are disrespecting mothers, sisters, daughters and wives everywhere.
Thank you for shining a light on just how gullible and lazy we have become in our consumption of media. We will no longer click and share ‘news’ without verifying facts and sources.
Thank you for showing us just how many people are disenfranchised, disillusioned and discouraged from politics.
But most of all I want to thank you for bringing us together. For helping us to unite, regardless of race, religion, gender or even location. You are spurring us to build bridges, when there are threats of walls. Without you, so many of us would not be standing up to make our voices heard.
Donald, on behalf of everyone who believes in tolerance, freedom and fairness, I thank you.
As I sift through my Facebook and Instagram feeds, I’m overwhelmed by the number of candle images I see. So many people sharing these images as a mark of rememberance or respect for everyone who has lost a baby as part of baby loss awareness week.
My kids sometimes drive me mad. They make noise, they whinge, they’re messy. But they are here. I am able to shout and moan at them. But I can also watch them grow and develop each and every day. I can hug and squeeze them and tell them how much they mean to me. I love them so much it hurts. Not everyone gets to do this.
Some people have experienced the anticipation and anxiety of pregnancy and maybe even the excitement of a newborn, but not the toddler or school years, let alone anything after that. I can’t imagine what that must feels like.
So today I must remember just how blessed I am to have two healthy boys and how thankful I am for them.
I will say a prayer for everyone whose experience of parenthood is now a memory. We can’t even try to understand or explain the reasons for your loss, but know that we all stand together and hope that your pain eases.